Sara Mannix

Julia came running into our room at 6:30 a.m. this morning - “MOM-DAD IT’S CHRISTMAS - LET’S GO!!! CAN I WAKE UP SEAN AND JULIA!!???”  At nine years old, Julia is totally excited, your face lit up as you saw your fuff chair.  Julia, you open up your stocking and immediately offer to share the candy as “I know you love this chocolate mom”, then you offer to read to your little sister and she snuggles into your arms.  What a lovely sweet girl you are.  I sit in awe of you, admiring the generous, caring person you have grown into and am overwhelmed by gratitude.  

Sean and Kristina are both just thrilled with each toy, each present seeming better than the one before, and you just can’t wait to play together with all your new toys.  Of course your big sister will orchestrate the fun.  Just two days ago she thought up the idea of everyone having a mailbox on their doors (she made of paper) so you could all send eachother notes.  Daily the notes are passed.  Kristina can only write limited words like I love you- so her notes are mostly love notes.  Sean loves to ask questions and Julia sends inpirational messages. 

The rock tumbler is now tumbling, you kids are excitedly playing with all your toys nicely together and now it’s time for mom and dad to hit the hot tub and reflect on our blessings!

Summer has brought so many good times, I love watching you kids play together.  You are so close, rarely fight and just love getting lost in the games of imagination that Julia creates for you.  We have been so busy, from camping every few weeks, boating and swimteam to visiting grandma and playing with friends.  I’m trying to spend as much time with you kids as possible, work brings such satisfaction yet so much guilt.  When I’m with you, I feel stress as I know there are things that need to be done for work and when I’m working, I want so desperately to be with you kids.  Guilt and stress - they go together, it’s this heavy weight that looms.  I know it serves no purpose, how does one get rid of the constant weight that bears down from just needing to be both a mom and run a business…

Sean my love lost his two front teeth this week, he’s such a doll, sweet to the core.  I love that all my children are so affectionate, so snuggly and still want me all the time.  Julia - a swimmer - who knew?!  She has such a great attitude on life, she lives for friends and is such a leader.  Kristina, my baby, you need mommy time and I’m giving you as much as I can. You are quite the swimmer, learning the crawl, backstroke and swimming like a fish underwater.  You claim to be the best swinger in the world as you can swing higher than any kid on the planet.

Every year, the girls get together the first freezing weekend in March to celebrate Melissa Pagnotta’s birthday in Lake Placid.  She is an amazing woman, sweet, kind and fun.  These girls play hard, make you laugh until you pee your pants and ski like pros.  I can’t go into to details of what happens on girls weekend, I’m sworn to silence, but I do believe that every one - guys and girls - needs their own “gender” only weekend at least once a year. Remember what it was like to giggle all night long at your slumber parties when you were eight?  This is even better and it’s what makes life so great.  Happy Birthday Melissa!